Are you ready to be REAL in love ?

Rabbit been asking around " What is in love? " " How do you know if your in love?"

Then my brother reminded me sth that I already knew but have forgotten "Again!". He said" Love is a very simple yet powerful feeling. There is no reason for you to love. You love because you wan to love. You give because you love. Its a very sweet and happy feeling. It doesnt make you sad or drain you. It makes you feel great all the time and as if your in the heaven.When your in love, you smile for no reason.  Why do you needa get upset with your relationship? Because if you do, then its not love. You live in fear. Do not make your relationship complicated because you both are connected by a very simple reason which is love . If it is complicate then its time to let go your fear." 

How to stay in love all the time ? Theres only one way which is self love. Love yourself first and connect deeply with you. This is what Mr. Don Miguel Ruiz wrote :

In every relationship there are two halves of that relationship. One is you, and the other is your son, your daughter, your father, your mother, your friends, your partner. Of those halves, you are only responsible for your half; you are not responsible for the other half. 

With the other half we can share, we can enjoy, we can create the most wonderful dream together. But the other half always has its own dream, its own will, and we can never control that dream no matter how hard we try. Then we have a choice: We can create a conflict and a war of control, or we can become a playmate and a team player. Playmates and team players play together, but not against each other. If you see your partnership, your romantic relationship , as a team, everything will start to improve. In a relationship, as in a game, it's not about winning or losing. You are playing because you want to have fun. 

Rabbit is 28 soon and this is the q i gona ask myself. Are you ready to be REAL in love ? 

The flow...

BunBun Go Far East
BunBun kept me company to Orchard Far East last weekend and we had a super great time with Prissy and Chivvy. I should have got her some baju LOL

BunBun first time experience on bus :D

Prissy Bear Bear with Bunny

Chivvy looks so much cuter w her fringe and as you see Prissy is really a tall lady. 

BunBun cares about her health just like me ^.^ Thats why she loves to drink water. 

Awesome Slava SnowShow

Rabbit watched this magical performance at MBS Theater with RA on Tuesday and I was so entertained and happy. At first I was ummm what's the show about because the performers dun talk and they huge sense of humor. I was expecting they to sing or dance :p  I thought there is a story line so I was kinda impatient at the begining waiting for the "main point". Then the show getting more and more interesting when theres interacting with audiences. If your interested better hurry up coz the last day of the show is on 9 September. 

I was :O OMG we gona cover by WEB!!!

At the end of the show, we were entertained by many many huge balloons. I felt like 5 years old again. 

BunBun and BumBum had great time watching the show.

The lovely couple's first date. 

Happy Birthday Kern

Happy Birthday to Kern again. Yesterday I celebrated his birthday with others at Novena International Seafood Vienna Teppanyaki. Hope you had a great time with us. I love this couple so much because they show me how important it is for both party to work hard to maintain a good relationship. Yesterday was their anniversary as well, 3rd year if im not mistaken. Wishing you both the best ^.^

Magic Magic Magic I love Magic

Hows week been everyone so far ? This is a must share to  you all. Rabbit watched Magic Mike Last nite and till now my mind is filled up by the movements by the strippers especially Mike ( Channing Tatum) LOL Cant believe im such a pervert. When I first seen the movie I was OMG WTF AIYOOO THIS IS CRAZY, then I started WOWOWOWO  WO WO WO and WO hahahha. I si be tahan myself also :p Ok Im not that pervert ok its just that I am impressed by how they moved and danced. I wonder how does guy feel when they watch this movie lol I give it a ten :p hahahaha

Ok I suppose to stay vegeterian all the time but sometimes I broke the rules :p I craved for tuna and curry yesterday so I bought roti prata for lunch then mixed with Ayam Brand's Curry Tuna. OH MY GOODNESS !! I was so happy and contended that I wanted to cry LOL well a bit exageratted but more alike my feeling that moment :p If you have read my post "Art of Love" Im sure you know that I had a little trouble in seeking what's happiness. When we are unhappy, the first question that come out in our mind will be : " Whose that "someone" that upset you". Then we will have all sort of answers and assumptions about what others had done to us. However sometimes, the main reason or person that upset ourselves is us who we neglected it. Of course the environment plays a certain role in deciding your mood but if you choose not to then your mood wont swing coz of others. Since last November, I have been learning and trying my best to let go my past and start a brand new life with a happy and positive me. I thought by committing and setting my intention at that particular moment , I will be alright for the rest of my day and life. Of course that would be a good start but theres nothing can be promised even we set the intention (wout action and commitment, imerely intention, we could never reach our life goal) . Therefore it is important for us to know clearly what we wan and stay on the right track. It might sound " Long breathe" for always telling myself to do the right thing to make myself happy and ask myself how am i doing and what I wan for life ? Due to the "troublesome", i choose to stay in comfort zone then ignore my own self and even forgot to appreciate myself  whose in living a great environment. Later on my fear will appear then kick aside my love. So today I really appreciate myself for taking the effort to keep reminding myself whats the real happiness and how important for me to accept myself. Theres so much more to know about me cuterabbit and I am so willingly to do so . Because every single part of me is so special and without them, I am not a super cute rabbit :D 

Don't play play!! BumBum is a CRland fans as well :p BumBum is in town but too bad havent got the chance to meet up w bunbun. Guess he having so much fun in this lion city :p  BunBun gona cubit his telinga

Here Rabbit wana say thanks to all her beloved friends whose always there listening and supporting her :D 

Here's my fave quote for this week:

You cannot change The Past, But you can learn from it. When the same situation arises, you can do things differently And become happier and more effective and successful today. Stay happy everyone :D Hugsss

BaySushi MBS

Only recently rabbit knows about ADA Deals App and found out this is a really useful app esp if you life in Sg . Now I am addicted to check on the updates on ADA coz theres all sort of deals including Travel, Food & Beverages, Spa &Beauty and etc. I saw a lego land and hello kitty land deals and OMG I so want to go T_T hopefully I will hv the chance to visit this two lands hoho 

My first purchase of deals on ADA  --- BaySushi at Marina Bay Sands. Unfortunately there wasnt enough staff so we waited quite sometimes . I was with SK and Grace. 

Grace and I are both September born baby. We are still thinking how we can celebrate our big day together :p Good news is that Sk is away early Sept. yuhuuu its our party time!!!

Dinner was not bad but I had a really huge portion and I nearly pengsan. However the rice seemed not enough to me. I almost wanted to ask the lady who sat behind me for some donation coz she didnt finish her nasi :p 

OMG Jeremy Scott had partnered with Adidas Originals for this super cute teddy bear sneakers and Rabbit love it. I was so excited with it till I saw the price then i was like oh well.. ummm not really that realisitic and it gets dirty easily. well "chi bu dao de pu tao " is sour :p 

I bet my bun bun would love this baby sneakers hohohoho

So hows day so far my dear friends? Tomorrow is Friday so whats you all plan and hows week been ? HOpe everything is great. Rabbit is sending super great energy to u all :D 

Art of Love

Last nite rabbit spent almost whole evening journalling "invisibly" :P Then I realised that I was kinda harsh to myself because I expect myself to learn fast and could be even more aware which stressed me out. I cried the whole evening ( not really that long :p) about my feelings because I could not accept the fact that I being out of power. I am a very sensitive woman ( im turning 28 soon so guess calling myself woman is just right) whose trying not to be and able to control my "monkey mind" well. I get upset with tiny little things easily and sometimes I wish I could be out of power to get a little bit of attention so that I will be pampered. However my other side telling me that I should be disciplined and behave and be a proper lady. 

So I kinda confused by myself. What should I do and is that wrong for me to get upset ? 

After a while, my lady told me that sometimes it is okay to be a "lady" as long as I am aware. As a fact, I am still a "Sweet" bunny that need attention and care sometimes. Face my own feelings and love everything about me. There is no wrong to own negative thoughts and definitely crying is fine to release my feelings. I should be proud of myself to be able to take the courage to laugh, to cry and to be me myself. 

I am still learning and practising the art of love. We ask for more sometimes but its okay because as long as we are aware then we will learn from our mistake. I might feel insecure  because of the past that I havent let go totally.  Relationships (with anyone)  that I have now is not perfect but I know it is worth it. I choose my decision because I trust my feelings. I am willing to take sometimes to make it right and be present.

Spence Johnson shared this :

You cannot change the past but you can learn from it. When the same situation arises, you can do things differently. And become happier and more effective and successful today. 

This is definitely useful to rabbit and I have faith in myself that I will be better and better. 

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfiltri

Selamat Hari Raya 

Once Again Rabbit and bunbun wish all my Muslim's friends Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri, Mohon maaf lahir & Batin. Today (20/8) is the first day of Raya in Brunei while the second day in Singapore. Today I can many Raya pics posted in IG and FB. That making me miss Brunei even more. How I wish I was there home visiting. Maybe I miss the kuih and curry more :p 

Hari Raya Mode is in the air almost everywhere in Sg. 

Forever 21 

Last weekend Rabbit went to Forever 21 at Ion Orchard and found out that the price for the latest dresses range from $33 to $39 which is super duper reasonable. Girls, maybe its time for you to pay a visit here to add on new family to your wardrobe. So many dresses rabbit wana purchase but good thing I still be able to tahan coz I need money for something more important. Yuhuuu September is coming soon and Im loving it !! 

Wise Words 

Some people might ask what we should do when we face difficulties in life or we are really in deep shit? Because such situation will drain our energy and make us really suffer. How to be positive even when we receive negative energy from "everyone" ? Well as long as we stay present, focus on whats right and do the right thing then we are safe and we will be happy. Sound "shallow" right ? hehehe guess what!! you may read "The Present" by Spencer Johnson, a book that rabbit just bought during last weekend and it is really awesome. I havent finish reading it because I love to read the same book in different months so that Ill discover new values again and again.
Ive been reading and sleeping alot for the past few days and I felt awesome!! hahaha my new hobby :p Yuhuuu Friday is coming soon and I am definitely looking forward to it. lalalalalla Sing a Happy Song!!!

How do you see life

Rabbit's Pattern

If you were rabbit's stalker/friend/fan/or anything you name it :p, you will realise that I like to take picture of my left face :p Reason is because I look slimmer at this angle . Dun judge me ok :p Im born with a round face so this is what I can do to be photogenic :p I think I could draw a circle without a compass but with my face :p 

 I had this tomato's soup at Tim's farewell lunch . Thanks again for the treat. Hows your holiday so far ? Guess your uni start tomorrow right ? Dun miss me too much okie hohoho we all having "no fun" without you.

Rabbit been liking LANEIGE Ornament Dual Top Coat since last year. It is a double sided cosmetic with pinky lip gloss at one side and the other side with shinny liquid eye shadow that can perk up both your eyes. Not really quite sure if its still in the market.

With Victoria Secret Beauty Rush Blush Cheek Stain Pink , your cheeks will look of coz rossy, sweet coz it tasted sweet ( I can smell lit ) and sticky (thats the reason the color can last longer on ur face :p) I found it a very useful blushes because you dun need brush and it can be applied easily.

BunBun's Pattern

Dun play play !! Nowadays BunBun has different sleeping pattern. This is what happen when shes not in a good mood. Guess she must be having nightmare of bumbum stalking other ladies' fb. FYI bumbum always surfs net for hours and he sleeps late coz of Olympic. Such a bad habit bumbum has. Not like bunbun , so disciplined hehehehe 

BunBun first visited Tanjong Pagar and had a great with brownie and plum plum . Oyeah let us welcome Plum Plum the big soft bear bear. One of the family member of Prissy. I think his job is to take good care of the house thats why he stays at the sitting room. 

FYI, bunbun must at least see bumbum once a day thro pic or ft. If not she will get angry coz she knows this noti bumbum always run here run there.

BumBum acts cool and relax when bunbun is acting up. 

Jum Jum Bo

 Rabbit had a great catch up with Anthony and PC one of a weekdays & we had super delicious dinner at Jumbo East Coast. Never been to east coast cz rabbit is not really a seafood person .However this place is really beautiful and is so crowded. Jumbo Seafood should be the best seafood restaurant at this area base on the crowds. I love the golden bun so much and thanks Anthony for ordering kangkong for me. It was his birthday but ended up he had to pay :p

Special thanks again to Anthony for the treat and definitely your sharing. He quoted : With the greatest awareness, every sec is a 3M. I love his energy and his determination in being the best of himself. Awesome friend and I know I will see you soon. 

Photo shooting w Alan

Rabbit had a quick photoshooting  with Alan at Clarke Quay few weeks back. Thanks for willing to spare time with this "free" rabbit for her blog & I know you had been sweating so much due to the hot weather  :p

Cant wait for the next session :) 

  

Best seafood in town is at M Hotel 

Trust rabbit and you wont go wrong. M hotel at Tanjong Pagar definitely has the best and freshest seafood in town (so far :p). Kern, Prissy & Rabbit went there few weeks ago randomly and we all loved it. Awesome dinner I had and I cant forget about the taste even till now. Imagine how powerful and mamamiah the food is. 

This is a huge surprise for rabbit ~~~ Liu lian eh~~~ This is durian!!! Abuuuu My top favourite and I cant believe it is available at M Hotel. FYI this is definitely as tasty as the "King of Cat". So regretted that I had only few cups . If theres a chance or I should say " money", I wana go again but must asap coz later no more durian. 

Attention to Seafood lovers~~ Guarantee you will love the freshness and sweetness of the seafood. Try and you WONT regret!!!! Wait no more !!

My Awareness

Guess what's rabbit's biggest awareness of the week ? I no longer look good in fringe :/ Just kidding :p 

I am a love bunny who give love conditionally especially to specific person.I fell in a relationship easily when I received tones of "love" from the other party without considering am i ready and is that what i want. Therefore the relationship became so conditional that my love depends on the other half. Just few weeks ago, I realised that I should take real courage to be really in love . First with myself  , only then to others. I love because I love you not because I wan you to love me back. Time flies and I should appreciate every moments I have with all my beloved one. Why should I choose to hide my feelings and let my fear controls my love. Not only I have to be in love but I have to practise love. The only way to practise love is to keep loving unconditionally. Theres many ppl in my "love" list for sure. However sometimes they might cant feel us because we hide our feelings in order to protect ourself. Ive been asking myself : What do I wan to do with my life and How I see it . Well the answer definitely will change from time to time. But meanwhile I can tell you that, my life is to be in love and face my fear with all my love. We can only live in the happiest moment when we are in love. With the eyes of love, everything you see is love.